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5 Tips to Get Clear and Focused

January 7, 2020 by Marian Buck-Murray Leave a Comment

Okay, it’s time.  Time to get focused.  Time to move forward into the new year.

Nothing new here — we all know about the resolutions, goals, and intentions that seem so important at the start of a new year.  And of course, this is 2020, which promises to be monumental…..

But alas, sometimes, it can be downright hard to get up and running.  Especially after a month of Holiday distractions and excess.  And if you’re feeling stuck, groggy, or unmotivated, I’ve got some tips that might just help.

I know all about being stuck, with that awful nagging voice that tells me I should be doing something, that I should be motivated, that I should be moving forward a lot more quickly.

It’s usually at this moment, when I’m feeling completely unmotivated, that I realize I’m not clear, and certainly not focused.  And, when I’m not clear or focused, I can find innumerable ways to keep my self stuck.

Typically, the reason I’m not clear and focused, is because I’m still carrying the residues of the past.  In the case of the Holidays, aspects of my consciousness might still be holding on to the season.

It’s tough to get clear, when my consciousness is loitering in the past.

With that in mind, I’ve created this video with my top 5 favorite tips for getting clear and focused. 

Enjoy!

 

Happy New Year!

Marian

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Clear and Focused

January 8, 2019 by Marian Buck-Murray 2 Comments

January is a time to reboot, refocus, and get clear about our lives.  Despite the cold here in New Jersey, it’s an invigorating time of year, and I love it.  As I look out my back window, past the bare winter branches, the view is clear, far, and wide.  The possibilities feel endless. 

Along with these endless possibilities, comes the need for focused clarity.  Gazing into the far off  yonder feels freeing, and inspiring, yet I know I can’t stay there.  It’s time to get back to work.  Back into focus. It’s time for renewed clarity.

Here are some tips to get back into focus after a distracting holiday season, or at any time that you feel the need to clear your mind of all the muddle.

Meditate  — The practice of meditation will help you clarify and calm your mind. The act of focusing on your breath helps train your mind to focus when and where you need to focus.  I talk about meditation all the time, because it works.

Fresh Air – With colder weather, it might be tempting to stay inside.  Ignore the temptation.  Being out in the fresh air allows you to breathe in more oxygen. When your brain gets more oxygen, it functions more efficiently, boosting clarity and concentration.

EFT Tapping —  EFT tapping does wonders for a distracted, overworked mind.  The act of tapping helps bring you back into your body. In addition, it helps lower cortisol, thereby returning more blood to the thinking part of your brain, increasing its efficiency.  And, tapping helps bring your brainwave state from a beta level to an alpha level.  An alpha brainwave state will help you feel more calm and focused. Contact me to learn more about EFT Tapping.

Get Clear about Fear – Sometimes fear will make us choose distraction over focused action.  Often, we’re not fully aware that fear is causing us to stay distracted. Take time to look at what you’re avoiding by being distracted. Notice any fear that comes up around whatever it is you’re avoiding.  Sometimes it’s enough just to acknowledge the fear, and take action anyway. Other times you might want to use EFT Tapping, or talk with a practitioner or therapist for help. Contact me if you’d like help releasing fear.

Positive Self-Talk – Keep your eye on the prize.  Notice what you’re saying to yourself.  Keep yourself in a positive space by continually telling yourself you can do it.  For example, repeat to yourself that you love being creative, productive, successful, disciplined,  etc.   In her book Becoming, Michelle Obama describes how she successfully uses the refrain : Am I Enough? – Yes I am, to help herself overcome big challenges.  Remember that you too, are enough! Get the positive talk going, and keep it going.  It’s amazing what it can do to improve your self-perceptions.

Eat Green and Clean —  A clean, green diet will do wonders to increase clarity and focus.  Dark green and cruciferous vegetables are especially helpful for detoxifying the blood.  The fewer toxins in your system, the more focused you will be.  In addition to increasing vegetable consumption,  reduce or eliminate foods that contribute to toxification.  These foods include refined carbohydrates, wheat products, sugar, alcohol, and processed foods with artificial ingredients.  And, remember to drink plenty of water.

Music —  I use an app called Focus@Will. This works so well for me that I sometimes actually resist it when I don’t want to get down to work.  There are numerous apps with music designed specifically for studying, writing, working, etc.  Used regularly, this type of music will cue your mind to come into focus. 

Aromatherapy – Aromatherapy is another way to cue the mind.  Candles scented with herbs can be effective.  Aromatherapy infusers, using your favorite essential oils, are also useful.  Experiment, and find what works for you. 

Happy New Year!  Wishing you a fabulous, amazing year, with oodles of LOVE, PROSPERITY, FRIENDSHIP, GOOD HEALTH, FUN, and ADVENTURE!

Peace,

Marian

 

 

Filed Under: EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), Uncategorized Tagged With: aromatherapy, clarity, clean eating, EFT tapping, focus, fresh air, getting focused, meditation, new year

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